‘Don’t you want to be Sāmoan?’
“Except for church, our Sāmoan-ness never made it out the front door of our house.”
Identity
Ihumātao feels like how I wish Auckland felt
“I can’t think of a time I’ve been in such a mixed group. There is a vibe of considerateness, gentleness. People are careful with the kids, and with each other. If you make eye contact, people say 'Kia ora', even if you don’t say it first.”
I’ve tried to learn Tongan, and I’ve tried to be Tongan
"Being an outsider because of my personality quirks was an identity I could embrace. Better than being defined purely by my lack of culture and language. Give me Crazy Pālangi over plain Pālangi any day."
My mother is Pākehā — and I love her
When I hear a child saying she hates Pākehā, it doesn’t sit right with me. It’s the same when I hear people referring to the “bloody Pākehās”.
Old certainties, old prejudices, old fears are losing their grip
The good news is that the country seems to be in a process of recovery — and for Pākehā, discovery — of the Māori conceptual world.
Why I didn’t sit with the other Māori girls at school
I grew up in a predominantly Pākehā town in the South Island. My mother is Pākehā. My father, who...
Tāmati Kruger: We are not who we should be as Tūhoe people
Tūhoe leader Tāmati Kruger delivered this year’s annual Bruce Jesson Memorial Lecture at the...
‘I’m brown. But I’m also a white person.’
This chapter by Evelyn Marsters, “Shifting Borders”, is extracted from Fair Borders? Migration Policy in the Twenty-First Century, published by Bridget Williams Books.
I’m the unrealised vision of my dad’s migrant dream
I sat on the freshly concreted wall to my father’s grave, with tears steaming off my face. It was...
Donna Rose Addis: I didn’t look like who I was on the inside
'I looked like I was just another Pālagi — whereas actually, I felt like I was a Samoan from South Auckland.'
Rhonda Kite: Too brown to be white — and too white to be brown
No one can hurt you more than you can hurt yourself.
Nadine Millar: I’m lucky I can walk in two worlds
There’s a saying, a whakataukī, that reminds us that the kūmara doesn’t speak of its own...
Where are you from?
Laura Toailoa was born in Samoa, grew up in South Auckland, and is now living in Wellington, where...
Nadine Millar: I’ve been called a born-again Māori
Before I started learning Māori, the only time I ever came into contact with the language was on...
My DNA results are in. I’m whiter than the milkman.
As some of you will know, I recently had my DNA tested. Well, I got my results back, and I had a...
Is my identity in my DNA?
My family has no real secrets – that I know of, anyway. Mum and Dad are both my birth-parents. I...
Nicky Hager: Living in a Polynesian country
I live in an increasingly Polynesian country. It is part of who I am, and I think a big part of...
So you think you’re Māori?
I was rehearsing a speech in Māori the other day when my 10-year-old son interrupted me to ask if,...
Why is it easier to be Māori overseas?
Biculturalism is deeply embedded in the Kiwi psyche, writes Nadine Millar, but many of us don’t...
“Where you from?”
I worked in a call centre when I was 21 and sat on the side of the office that was almost...
The down-side of rejecting your roots
An Irish-Maori Kiwi writer, Piripi Whaanga, has come across an Irish-American with a puzzling, and...